Dhoulmagus
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My university sucks and its a way waste money and time to go out. My gpa isnt superb, so I need good social skills.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Could not going out for a year affect my social skills
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
School and social Life
Hey Do you know of any clubs you could be able to participate with?
One great way to meet people is to study with them in your class.
Have you ever considered starting a club in the subjects you have a hard time with in school?
Hey Do you know of any clubs you could be able to participate with?
One great way to meet people is to study with them in your class.
Have you ever considered starting a club in the subjects you have a hard time with in school?
Dhoulmagus
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My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
Dhoulmagus
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I dont have enough moneyskinnyguy said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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On the one hand you say...
Socializing with people (regardless of who they are) leads to opportunities of meeting more people...
and then you use excuses like...Dhoulmagus said:
What would a sociable person do you in your situation?Dhoulmagus said:
Socializing with people (regardless of who they are) leads to opportunities of meeting more people...