Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Could not going out for a year affect my social skills

Dhoulmagus

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My university sucks and its a way waste money and time to go out. My gpa isnt superb, so I need good social skills.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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School and social Life

Hey Do you know of any clubs you could be able to participate with?
One great way to meet people is to study with them in your class.
Have you ever considered starting a club in the subjects you have a hard time with in school?
 

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My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
 

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i told you to transfer to SDSU.

Either do it or GTFO.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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On the one hand you say...
Dhoulmagus said:
...I need good social skills.
and then you use excuses like...
Dhoulmagus said:
My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
What would a sociable person do you in your situation?

Socializing with people (regardless of who they are) leads to opportunities of meeting more people...
 

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Yes it can, because social skills need to be exercised in order for them to be at top form. Being isolated for that long will no doubt hurt your social skills.
 
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