"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Could not going out for a year affect my social skills

Dhoulmagus

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My university sucks and its a way waste money and time to go out. My gpa isnt superb, so I need good social skills.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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School and social Life

Hey Do you know of any clubs you could be able to participate with?
One great way to meet people is to study with them in your class.
Have you ever considered starting a club in the subjects you have a hard time with in school?
 

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My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
 

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i told you to transfer to SDSU.

Either do it or GTFO.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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On the one hand you say...
Dhoulmagus said:
...I need good social skills.
and then you use excuses like...
Dhoulmagus said:
My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
What would a sociable person do you in your situation?

Socializing with people (regardless of who they are) leads to opportunities of meeting more people...
 

Good Gao

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Yes it can, because social skills need to be exercised in order for them to be at top form. Being isolated for that long will no doubt hurt your social skills.
 
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