"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jhonny9546

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and security, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
 
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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and insecurity, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
 

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I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
A good Hispanic woman!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
 

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Women might be bluepilled in their conscious mind but their unconscious hind brain is red pilled whether they realize it or not.
 

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You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
In the latest decade, The marriage, has changed his value.
I have so many friends in LTR but not marriage
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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