"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Could it be that a woman is bluepilled?

jhonny9546

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and security, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
 
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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and insecurity, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
 

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I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
A good Hispanic woman!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
 

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Women might be bluepilled in their conscious mind but their unconscious hind brain is red pilled whether they realize it or not.
 

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You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
In the latest decade, The marriage, has changed his value.
I have so many friends in LTR but not marriage
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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