"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Could it be that a woman is bluepilled?

jhonny9546

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and security, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
 
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Oke.

But the books and movies made for women are not about a woman doing laundry, dishes and pooping out multiple children with one man. That won't ever sell.

They'll describe " wrong " love affairs with extremely high value men, all of which oftentimes is far from reality.

Imo it's the opposite of what man do; you'd need a redpill woman to understand both male and female nature. Because she needs to understand that a man trying to provide has doesn't necessarily has do with tingles and such. Most women are actually bluepilled, and fhus follow their emotions even if it's her downfall.

Men thrive when there's stability and insecurity, while women crave turmoil and chaos. That's why we are where we are today.
I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
 

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I think the best chick for a LTR is a woman who is redpill but doesn't know it overly. Meaning that she tries to be feminine and find a good man, but isn't overly political about the sexes. She's too busy being loving towards her friends and family that the thought of talking about the finer points of being "red pill" exhausts her. That saps her feminine energy. Philosophy is a man's sport, and for a good reason. There's simply no reason for a woman to be so political.

Her red pill philosophy is one of a good upbringing instead of trying to spend too much time in male spaces. Her happiness is derived from the company of a quality man. Not endless blogs, forums and bottom-feeding friends.
A good Hispanic woman!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maybe I'm talking nonsense, but could there be women in the world who have been so heavily conditioned by films, books and other things, that in reality, they suppress their hypergamy, in favor of this mindwashing?
You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
 

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Women might be bluepilled in their conscious mind but their unconscious hind brain is red pilled whether they realize it or not.
 

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You're not talking nonsense, but how in the hell can you be living in Italy and not recognize the massive brainwashing of the Catholic Church and their Virgin Worship?
In the latest decade, The marriage, has changed his value.
I have so many friends in LTR but not marriage
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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