"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey all,

learning to build my confidence and approach more. I can hold a decent conversation so long as the girl is interesting and offers enough 'hooks' to keep the momentum going.

Anyway, this morning I got off the train and saw this average looking girl just ahead of me. As I came in line with her the conversation went like this

Me: How's it going?
Her: good (she gave me a slight annoyed look)
Me: Big night? (It was about 8 in the morning so thought she might have been getting the train back from a big night out
Her: not really (same look)

After this I just ignored her and walked ahead. She obviously wasn't interested. So, could I have done anything different/better?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140339

Don't post the same thing twice to get a reply. That's annoying. It's late on a Friday night. You probably won't get too many replies. I've already taken one of my girls home because I wanted to spend some damn time alone. Then I get on here and give you a little help without any appreciation, and you become impatient.
 
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your FR lasted about 2 secs past the opener. then you prematurely ejected yourself because you overanalyzed her body language

don't worry about this one. just keep approaching, keep the momentum going
 
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Sorry tick37, forgot I'd already posted this haha. Just tired, but thanks heaps for your original response. I need to be able to be more 'to the point' like that.
 
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Too many beers, eh?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nah its actually been a quiet weekend, used to being out on the town haha but mates pulled out of plans so ended up bored as. Shoulda gone out by myself and checked out a few bars.
 
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