"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Could I have done anything different/better?

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Hey all,

learning to build my confidence and approach more. I can hold a decent conversation so long as the girl is interesting and offers enough 'hooks' to keep the momentum going.

Anyway, this morning I got off the train and saw this average looking girl just ahead of me. As I came in line with her the conversation went like this

Me: How's it going?
Her: good (she gave me a slight annoyed look)
Me: Big night? (It was about 8 in the morning so thought she might have been getting the train back from a big night out
Her: not really (same look)

After this I just ignored her and walked ahead. She obviously wasn't interested. So, could I have done anything different/better?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140339

Don't post the same thing twice to get a reply. That's annoying. It's late on a Friday night. You probably won't get too many replies. I've already taken one of my girls home because I wanted to spend some damn time alone. Then I get on here and give you a little help without any appreciation, and you become impatient.
 

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your FR lasted about 2 secs past the opener. then you prematurely ejected yourself because you overanalyzed her body language

don't worry about this one. just keep approaching, keep the momentum going
 

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Sorry tick37, forgot I'd already posted this haha. Just tired, but thanks heaps for your original response. I need to be able to be more 'to the point' like that.
 

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Too many beers, eh?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nah its actually been a quiet weekend, used to being out on the town haha but mates pulled out of plans so ended up bored as. Shoulda gone out by myself and checked out a few bars.
 
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