“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cooperation is the key

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've come to realise that with women, the only thing that matters is cooperation.

It doesn't matter what she says, it doesn't really matter what she does.

What matters is "is she cooperating 100%". If not, she's a waste of time.
No woman ever will cooperate 100%. And if she does she probably isn't worth much honestly.
 

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As mentioned above, there's something wrong if she cooperates 100%. There is a difference between being playfully difficult and being just difficult though.
 

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As mentioned above, there's something wrong if she cooperates 100%. There is a difference between being playfully difficult and being just difficult though.
Cooperation doesn't necessarily mean she does exactly as you desire. Part of it is having effective dialogue regardless of compliance.
 

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You can get full cooperation but you need to be a big part of her social circle, like you not getting what you want will create social problems for her.
 

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As mentioned above, there's something wrong if she cooperates 100%. There is a difference between being playfully difficult and being just difficult though.
No, I think there's something wrong if she tries to lead, like for example if she says "let's go back to your place". Then you should be suspicious about why she's in such a hurry and what her real intentions are (for example, to drug and rob you).

If she's cool going to the cinema, to a cafe, to a bar or back to your place... whatever you want... that's a very good thing.
 

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That's a bit too paranoid for my tastes. I don't think your strict opinion about this is the best way. You do you, but I'm not convinced.
 

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If u make an honest evaluation of urself, you will clearly see that ur mind and body works best when it is joyful.

This is true, is it not?

To make a woman follow a man, that man has to be the best in every possible way.

This is true, is it not?

But to be the best, he must be joyful or if you like, enjoying life as it rolls by.

This is true, it is not?

So in the end, it all starts off with the right mindset or how you think, that sets things in motion.

And right now, with this thread, you should question urself, is this the right kind of mindset that you should be having?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thats called obedience but the feminists will hang you for saying it.
Not so much obedience as the absence of BS. What I've found is that when women don't like you, they create obstacles and roadblocks - "I'm not that kind of girl", "I'm busy", "I'm sick", "I don't like going to the park, let's go to an expensive restaurant so that I can have a free dinner" etc. Whereas by cooperation I mean the absence of obstacles and the absence of all of this BS.

A person cooperating doesn't necessarily that they do exactly as a I say, but rather they are helping me to reach my objective rather than trying to derail things and go in a different direction that only benefits them (trying to get me to spend money, wanting to chit chat endlessly without meeting up, not wanting to be alone together, bringing along ****blockers and so on).
 
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