The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Now, she's never tried it, but insists she finds it disgusting. How can I change her opinion guys? any ideas?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Convincing your girlfriend to do anal
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When they become confortable enough with you, they are more open to experiment almost anything. How long have you been bangin' her for?
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
2 months. She's ok with urine (she's happy for me to pee in front of her), snot (I had a cold and she licked my nose for a joke), etc and seems fairly comfortable with me in general -- she just has a hang up with anal it seems.
Emotional blackmail over an extended period might get me there, but that's neither healthy nor smooth. Just wondered if you guys had anything to add on the matter.
(she was a virgin btw)
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Emotional blackmail over an extended period might get me there, but that's neither healthy nor smooth. Just wondered if you guys had anything to add on the matter.
(she was a virgin btw)
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Snot? I'm probably going to regret asking but what role does snot play in sex?
And she's right, anal is disgusting, and unhealthy for the receiver as she can get a prolapsed rectum after years of anal penetration. Som of these porn stars that do a lot of anal will probably be wearing diapers by age 45. Besides, sh*t comes out of there, why do want your d*ck in that? As far as I'm concerned, the anus is a one-way only orifice.
And she's right, anal is disgusting, and unhealthy for the receiver as she can get a prolapsed rectum after years of anal penetration. Som of these porn stars that do a lot of anal will probably be wearing diapers by age 45. Besides, sh*t comes out of there, why do want your d*ck in that? As far as I'm concerned, the anus is a one-way only orifice.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
None, but i had a cold one day and got it all over her, she seemed fine. She even licked my nose for a joke (an indicator that she's comfortable with me in my book).
Why I want it is none of your concern, I just asked if you could help. Desire for anal sex is common.
Why I want it is none of your concern, I just asked if you could help. Desire for anal sex is common.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Some people just can't stand the idea of having their anus penetrated. I mean think about how we feel if the doctor has to examine our prostate, and that's just a finger, way smaller than the girth of a penis, yet that alone is enough to make us hit the ceiling. A **** in the ass must hurt way more than a finger from from your doc. So just accept that some people aren't down with that.
Oh and not that it's my cup of tea, but I've heard of some guys slowly introducing their girl to anal by using their tongue. Absolutety disgusting in my opinion, but I may not be as kinky as some.
Oh and not that it's my cup of tea, but I've heard of some guys slowly introducing their girl to anal by using their tongue. Absolutety disgusting in my opinion, but I may not be as kinky as some.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
I can understand that, but how can she really know until she's tried it. I'm just thinking that she's maybe having other concerns I can address, and wouldn't in fact mind anal were she to give it a go.
So, you say I should give up on this idea, and accept that the girl just doesn't want anal?
So, you say I should give up on this idea, and accept that the girl just doesn't want anal?
Maybe you can ask her if she'd like one lubed finger and see what she thinks of that. Try your pinky finger since it's the smallest. If she won't accept even that, then you probably have little chance of anal sex. I knew of a girl that didn't particularly enjoy anal sex, but loved her boyfriend so much that she enjoyed the pleasure he got out of it.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
You can't make her do something she does not want to do. When she is more confortable and or turned on enough she may want to try it. You will need lots of lube. She will need to be very relaxed cause it will cause her pain if she is not. If you do, do it. Have her bend over and get behinde her. She should back her a$$ into your c@ck so she can feel how far your man hood will go in for pleasure and how fast.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I did that once on accident. My girlfriend freaked out and was in alot of pain.Baruch said:
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Guy, think about the times gay guys say the same thing to straight guys. "You don't know what you're missing", "How can you really know until you've tried it?". If she's not into it, you must respect that.The Juan and only said:
If/when she's comfortable enough, she will bring it up. It has to come as if it is her idea, not yours.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Thank you for your input everyone. Some very sensible points of view from you guys.
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well I don't know if it helps her decision or not, but I have actually read that some woman can climax in like 5 seconds from ****oral stimulation combined with anal. I guess most women that try it once can't get enough of it after that.
If all else fails, just trick her and pretend you're doing it doggy style, then just stick it in door number 2!
p.s. that last part was not serious at all. please, nobody do that.
If all else fails, just trick her and pretend you're doing it doggy style, then just stick it in door number 2!
p.s. that last part was not serious at all. please, nobody do that.
Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Urine???The Juan and only said:
What the hell do you do with urine.
That's kind of gross IMO.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
I mean she's happy for me to pee in front of her. JESUS, I give a few examples of things that I think implies she's comfortable, and you turn them all sexual.
So far we've got idiots who've posted here just to say they don't agree with my preferences, and thanks for that btw, but I couldn't care less. As well as several posts claiming I'm "sick" purely because they've misinterpreted what i meant.
A guy asks for help, and the good replies get buried by a bunch of fukwit retards who just wanna post a wisecrack . Hello sosuave.
So far we've got idiots who've posted here just to say they don't agree with my preferences, and thanks for that btw, but I couldn't care less. As well as several posts claiming I'm "sick" purely because they've misinterpreted what i meant.
A guy asks for help, and the good replies get buried by a bunch of fukwit retards who just wanna post a wisecrack . Hello sosuave.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
first, no woman (taht I know of) on earth will just agree to do anal sex... you have to be in the ACT of sex, then spring it on em out of the blue... get in the head of passion.
on the other hand.. very few if any women will, if you are laying it down like you are supposed to, is going to stop in the heat of the moment... you usually don't even have to ask, just tell her ass to bend over. if you do'nt make it a big deal 9 out of 10 times they won't either
on the other hand.. very few if any women will, if you are laying it down like you are supposed to, is going to stop in the heat of the moment... you usually don't even have to ask, just tell her ass to bend over. if you do'nt make it a big deal 9 out of 10 times they won't either
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You have to make the trust sale first. If she trusts how you handle her pssy, then she is more likely to TRUST your other suggestions. Tell her "I will go really slowly, and if it feels uncomfortable, I'll stop. Trust me." ANd definately be stimulating her **** at the same time. It will relax and open her up.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.