"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Numbers don't mean much, but at the same time if you had a decent time and the girl seems cool about giving you the number, you'd think she will respond to your call.

Don't know about you guys but just getting annoyed with leaving voicemails and actually bringing something to the table (like great parties) and these chicks not replying. I have a couple who are very easy to deal with, always reply, etc.. but the others.. I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response.. I wonder if I should have stuck with it more, or did something differently.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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numbers game, if your really tired of that $hit, send a text maybe. Seems like fewer people are checking voicemail to me, everyone sees a text though.
 
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Amazing said:
I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response..
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1-2 calls? Dude, you're giving up too easily!

Next time tell em to quit playing hard to get. You can call once a week and leave a message, and repeat until the girl calls you back, without turning her off. You can probably call em every 3-5 days, sometimes leaving messages and sometimes not.

I would have to say that one surefire way to getting a girl to call you back is to leave an INTERESTING message.
Not like the same old "Hey, just wondering how you are doing. Give me a call back when you get the chance!" bullshyt, because girls get that ALL the time, and truthfully it is very lame. You can be more creative than that, just break your habit of leaving a "scripted message" and think of a way to hook her into wanting to call you back.

Hey, girls like persistent guys, which means you actually have to go out of your way just a LITTLE bit and chase her up, but once she gets into the habit of calling you back and sees the great man that she's been missing out on, you will not have to worry about chasing her.

You first have to get your power, by hooking a girl, then you can reel her in and keep that power.

Pushiness doesn't work though, as in being too concerned with the outcome of your interactions with women. Be indifferent to the outcome to avoid being pushy, because, if you like a girl, but are confident that if she doesn't have time to spend with you, you can find another girl, your attraction towards her will motivate you, and your confidence will keep you in control of yourself.

So be persistent, without being pushy!
 
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