"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Conversion from first meet to the call

Amazing

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Numbers don't mean much, but at the same time if you had a decent time and the girl seems cool about giving you the number, you'd think she will respond to your call.

Don't know about you guys but just getting annoyed with leaving voicemails and actually bringing something to the table (like great parties) and these chicks not replying. I have a couple who are very easy to deal with, always reply, etc.. but the others.. I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response.. I wonder if I should have stuck with it more, or did something differently.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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numbers game, if your really tired of that $hit, send a text maybe. Seems like fewer people are checking voicemail to me, everyone sees a text though.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Amazing said:
I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response..
1-2 calls? Dude, you're giving up too easily!

Next time tell em to quit playing hard to get. You can call once a week and leave a message, and repeat until the girl calls you back, without turning her off. You can probably call em every 3-5 days, sometimes leaving messages and sometimes not.

I would have to say that one surefire way to getting a girl to call you back is to leave an INTERESTING message.
Not like the same old "Hey, just wondering how you are doing. Give me a call back when you get the chance!" bullshyt, because girls get that ALL the time, and truthfully it is very lame. You can be more creative than that, just break your habit of leaving a "scripted message" and think of a way to hook her into wanting to call you back.

Hey, girls like persistent guys, which means you actually have to go out of your way just a LITTLE bit and chase her up, but once she gets into the habit of calling you back and sees the great man that she's been missing out on, you will not have to worry about chasing her.

You first have to get your power, by hooking a girl, then you can reel her in and keep that power.

Pushiness doesn't work though, as in being too concerned with the outcome of your interactions with women. Be indifferent to the outcome to avoid being pushy, because, if you like a girl, but are confident that if she doesn't have time to spend with you, you can find another girl, your attraction towards her will motivate you, and your confidence will keep you in control of yourself.

So be persistent, without being pushy!
 
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