"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Conversion from first meet to the call

Amazing

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Numbers don't mean much, but at the same time if you had a decent time and the girl seems cool about giving you the number, you'd think she will respond to your call.

Don't know about you guys but just getting annoyed with leaving voicemails and actually bringing something to the table (like great parties) and these chicks not replying. I have a couple who are very easy to deal with, always reply, etc.. but the others.. I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response.. I wonder if I should have stuck with it more, or did something differently.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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numbers game, if your really tired of that $hit, send a text maybe. Seems like fewer people are checking voicemail to me, everyone sees a text though.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Amazing said:
I have dropped hundreds of women in my life after calling once/twice and not getting a response..
1-2 calls? Dude, you're giving up too easily!

Next time tell em to quit playing hard to get. You can call once a week and leave a message, and repeat until the girl calls you back, without turning her off. You can probably call em every 3-5 days, sometimes leaving messages and sometimes not.

I would have to say that one surefire way to getting a girl to call you back is to leave an INTERESTING message.
Not like the same old "Hey, just wondering how you are doing. Give me a call back when you get the chance!" bullshyt, because girls get that ALL the time, and truthfully it is very lame. You can be more creative than that, just break your habit of leaving a "scripted message" and think of a way to hook her into wanting to call you back.

Hey, girls like persistent guys, which means you actually have to go out of your way just a LITTLE bit and chase her up, but once she gets into the habit of calling you back and sees the great man that she's been missing out on, you will not have to worry about chasing her.

You first have to get your power, by hooking a girl, then you can reel her in and keep that power.

Pushiness doesn't work though, as in being too concerned with the outcome of your interactions with women. Be indifferent to the outcome to avoid being pushy, because, if you like a girl, but are confident that if she doesn't have time to spend with you, you can find another girl, your attraction towards her will motivate you, and your confidence will keep you in control of yourself.

So be persistent, without being pushy!
 
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