"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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conversation topics during dates to keep it fun

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donpepot

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
Look around you Look at her and obsereve and surely youll think of somthing.But dont focus your self on trying to impress her..

But focus on making her comfortable with you...

or if youre running out of things to say..well just ask her somthing and surely youll find interesing topic to talk about or crack a joke out of it
 

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play any sports? how long? what are your passions? talk abotu music, tell funny stories..
i mean w/e. its not hard.
 

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shiit talk about something like the bus, make fun of how lame it can be sometimes, basically joke about it man. But like someone said ask her what kind of music she likes, also talk about movies. try those out.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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yea what happen if u have and can completely talk about nothing, we hang out at least 2 times a week and most 4 times, being doing it since first week we been out and eventually i ran out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If talking is getting boring well i think its time to doing somthing:rock:
 
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