"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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conversation topics during dates to keep it fun

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donpepot

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
Look around you Look at her and obsereve and surely youll think of somthing.But dont focus your self on trying to impress her..

But focus on making her comfortable with you...

or if youre running out of things to say..well just ask her somthing and surely youll find interesing topic to talk about or crack a joke out of it
 

Patrick124

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play any sports? how long? what are your passions? talk abotu music, tell funny stories..
i mean w/e. its not hard.
 

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shiit talk about something like the bus, make fun of how lame it can be sometimes, basically joke about it man. But like someone said ask her what kind of music she likes, also talk about movies. try those out.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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yea what happen if u have and can completely talk about nothing, we hang out at least 2 times a week and most 4 times, being doing it since first week we been out and eventually i ran out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donpepot

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If talking is getting boring well i think its time to doing somthing:rock:
 
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