"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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conversation topics during dates to keep it fun

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donpepot

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
Look around you Look at her and obsereve and surely youll think of somthing.But dont focus your self on trying to impress her..

But focus on making her comfortable with you...

or if youre running out of things to say..well just ask her somthing and surely youll find interesing topic to talk about or crack a joke out of it
 

Patrick124

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play any sports? how long? what are your passions? talk abotu music, tell funny stories..
i mean w/e. its not hard.
 

johnny_depp

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shiit talk about something like the bus, make fun of how lame it can be sometimes, basically joke about it man. But like someone said ask her what kind of music she likes, also talk about movies. try those out.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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yea what happen if u have and can completely talk about nothing, we hang out at least 2 times a week and most 4 times, being doing it since first week we been out and eventually i ran out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donpepot

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If talking is getting boring well i think its time to doing somthing:rock:
 
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