"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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conversation topics during dates to keep it fun

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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donpepot

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
Look around you Look at her and obsereve and surely youll think of somthing.But dont focus your self on trying to impress her..

But focus on making her comfortable with you...

or if youre running out of things to say..well just ask her somthing and surely youll find interesing topic to talk about or crack a joke out of it
 

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play any sports? how long? what are your passions? talk abotu music, tell funny stories..
i mean w/e. its not hard.
 

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shiit talk about something like the bus, make fun of how lame it can be sometimes, basically joke about it man. But like someone said ask her what kind of music she likes, also talk about movies. try those out.
 

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yea what happen if u have and can completely talk about nothing, we hang out at least 2 times a week and most 4 times, being doing it since first week we been out and eventually i ran out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donpepot

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If talking is getting boring well i think its time to doing somthing:rock:
 
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