"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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conversation topics during dates to keep it fun

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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donpepot

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey guys, when me and my girl go out we always have fun, but we have those moments when we both run out of things to say, for e.g on the train or the bus, we hate other ppl hearing out convos and i get alitle 2 nervous so i just go all quiet. or when we are eating and i dont want to talk with my mouth full, i am a fast eater so for 10 mins i will just be quietly sitting there eating.
I know what to say to crack her up and have fun, but i also want to fill those moments up so the whole day seems fun, when theres nothing interesting around your envionment, what can you say??
Thanks guys
Look around you Look at her and obsereve and surely youll think of somthing.But dont focus your self on trying to impress her..

But focus on making her comfortable with you...

or if youre running out of things to say..well just ask her somthing and surely youll find interesing topic to talk about or crack a joke out of it
 

Patrick124

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play any sports? how long? what are your passions? talk abotu music, tell funny stories..
i mean w/e. its not hard.
 

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shiit talk about something like the bus, make fun of how lame it can be sometimes, basically joke about it man. But like someone said ask her what kind of music she likes, also talk about movies. try those out.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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yea what happen if u have and can completely talk about nothing, we hang out at least 2 times a week and most 4 times, being doing it since first week we been out and eventually i ran out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

donpepot

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If talking is getting boring well i think its time to doing somthing:rock:
 
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