"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would not tend to have a problem approaching, however once it gets past Hi I have no idea what I would say next.

Basic smalltalk would do but after about 30 secs what would the topic move on to

Bearing in mind im not good at reading envrionment
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"w/e the reason I came is cause I saw you and somehow you got my attention, I'd like to know you better but right now I'm in a hurry so would you mind writing down your phone number so that I have that chance some other time?"

1st) you are a busy guy
2nd) you don't get to the point where you have nothing else to say
3rd) you have more time to meet more and more other girls!
 
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Im sure sure the chicks will melt with that approach. Thats a last ditch effort if you really ARE that busy and see a hot one.

You have one minute to initiate kino. You have to turn the interaction subtly sexual and flirty very quickly. This is the hardest part, especially when its not in a drunken bar setting. You need to think of some question to ask them An opinion maybe. I hate opinion openers, but I think they might be ok if you use them AFTER you open the set, and have initiated some small talk.
 
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