"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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I would not tend to have a problem approaching, however once it gets past Hi I have no idea what I would say next.

Basic smalltalk would do but after about 30 secs what would the topic move on to

Bearing in mind im not good at reading envrionment
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"w/e the reason I came is cause I saw you and somehow you got my attention, I'd like to know you better but right now I'm in a hurry so would you mind writing down your phone number so that I have that chance some other time?"

1st) you are a busy guy
2nd) you don't get to the point where you have nothing else to say
3rd) you have more time to meet more and more other girls!
 
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Im sure sure the chicks will melt with that approach. Thats a last ditch effort if you really ARE that busy and see a hot one.

You have one minute to initiate kino. You have to turn the interaction subtly sexual and flirty very quickly. This is the hardest part, especially when its not in a drunken bar setting. You need to think of some question to ask them An opinion maybe. I hate opinion openers, but I think they might be ok if you use them AFTER you open the set, and have initiated some small talk.
 
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