"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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I would not tend to have a problem approaching, however once it gets past Hi I have no idea what I would say next.

Basic smalltalk would do but after about 30 secs what would the topic move on to

Bearing in mind im not good at reading envrionment
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"w/e the reason I came is cause I saw you and somehow you got my attention, I'd like to know you better but right now I'm in a hurry so would you mind writing down your phone number so that I have that chance some other time?"

1st) you are a busy guy
2nd) you don't get to the point where you have nothing else to say
3rd) you have more time to meet more and more other girls!
 
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Im sure sure the chicks will melt with that approach. Thats a last ditch effort if you really ARE that busy and see a hot one.

You have one minute to initiate kino. You have to turn the interaction subtly sexual and flirty very quickly. This is the hardest part, especially when its not in a drunken bar setting. You need to think of some question to ask them An opinion maybe. I hate opinion openers, but I think they might be ok if you use them AFTER you open the set, and have initiated some small talk.
 
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