"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I would not tend to have a problem approaching, however once it gets past Hi I have no idea what I would say next.

Basic smalltalk would do but after about 30 secs what would the topic move on to

Bearing in mind im not good at reading envrionment
 

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"w/e the reason I came is cause I saw you and somehow you got my attention, I'd like to know you better but right now I'm in a hurry so would you mind writing down your phone number so that I have that chance some other time?"

1st) you are a busy guy
2nd) you don't get to the point where you have nothing else to say
3rd) you have more time to meet more and more other girls!
 
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Im sure sure the chicks will melt with that approach. Thats a last ditch effort if you really ARE that busy and see a hot one.

You have one minute to initiate kino. You have to turn the interaction subtly sexual and flirty very quickly. This is the hardest part, especially when its not in a drunken bar setting. You need to think of some question to ask them An opinion maybe. I hate opinion openers, but I think they might be ok if you use them AFTER you open the set, and have initiated some small talk.
 
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