"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maximummax

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Hey folks, its been a while have opened a thread here.

I have a question
So when i talk to a girl for the first time I forget how to end it and so i find an excuse to leave it.

I would like to know what is the best way to end a conversation so a girl remembers me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SmooveMooves

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Conversations don't need a formal ending. Conversations end when you are both done talking and don't have anything else to add. After that you say: hey, I'll see you around....

And either
  1. Number close (Ask for her contact)
  2. Walk away
A lot of conversational problems simply come from not being relaxed and rushing.
 

KingofPuss

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Just let it flow and be relaxed. I've found that making the woman do most of the talking is easiest. Just look her in the eyes as she speaks so she feels like youre listening (and try actually listening, shut off your thoughts in conversation). Build your talk through what she says, or if you have something to bring to the table, do so.

You'd be surprised how much women love talking about nothing at all. Make fun of stuff, get her to laugh, and stay away from politics / religion
 

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Great advice guys... what about online conv like on fb
I get a lot of lays on fb. Most guys will say its a bad idea.

Strike up a convo "hey do we know each other?", "I didnt realize that you were into ____" etc.

Dont appear needy. Wait a while before you READ and RESPOND. I think its best to gauge their interests by asking a few questions, starting the convo and then saying "good chatting with you, I have to run. Lets chat later" and BOUNCE. Give it a few days to see if they message you back. If they do, close them. If they dont, its probably low interests, which is ok, on to the next one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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