"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maximummax

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Hey folks, its been a while have opened a thread here.

I have a question
So when i talk to a girl for the first time I forget how to end it and so i find an excuse to leave it.

I would like to know what is the best way to end a conversation so a girl remembers me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SmooveMooves

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Conversations don't need a formal ending. Conversations end when you are both done talking and don't have anything else to add. After that you say: hey, I'll see you around....

And either
  1. Number close (Ask for her contact)
  2. Walk away
A lot of conversational problems simply come from not being relaxed and rushing.
 

KingofPuss

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Just let it flow and be relaxed. I've found that making the woman do most of the talking is easiest. Just look her in the eyes as she speaks so she feels like youre listening (and try actually listening, shut off your thoughts in conversation). Build your talk through what she says, or if you have something to bring to the table, do so.

You'd be surprised how much women love talking about nothing at all. Make fun of stuff, get her to laugh, and stay away from politics / religion
 

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Great advice guys... what about online conv like on fb
I get a lot of lays on fb. Most guys will say its a bad idea.

Strike up a convo "hey do we know each other?", "I didnt realize that you were into ____" etc.

Dont appear needy. Wait a while before you READ and RESPOND. I think its best to gauge their interests by asking a few questions, starting the convo and then saying "good chatting with you, I have to run. Lets chat later" and BOUNCE. Give it a few days to see if they message you back. If they do, close them. If they dont, its probably low interests, which is ok, on to the next one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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