"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximummax

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Hey folks, its been a while have opened a thread here.

I have a question
So when i talk to a girl for the first time I forget how to end it and so i find an excuse to leave it.

I would like to know what is the best way to end a conversation so a girl remembers me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SmooveMooves

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Conversations don't need a formal ending. Conversations end when you are both done talking and don't have anything else to add. After that you say: hey, I'll see you around....

And either
  1. Number close (Ask for her contact)
  2. Walk away
A lot of conversational problems simply come from not being relaxed and rushing.
 

KingofPuss

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Just let it flow and be relaxed. I've found that making the woman do most of the talking is easiest. Just look her in the eyes as she speaks so she feels like youre listening (and try actually listening, shut off your thoughts in conversation). Build your talk through what she says, or if you have something to bring to the table, do so.

You'd be surprised how much women love talking about nothing at all. Make fun of stuff, get her to laugh, and stay away from politics / religion
 

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Great advice guys... what about online conv like on fb
I get a lot of lays on fb. Most guys will say its a bad idea.

Strike up a convo "hey do we know each other?", "I didnt realize that you were into ____" etc.

Dont appear needy. Wait a while before you READ and RESPOND. I think its best to gauge their interests by asking a few questions, starting the convo and then saying "good chatting with you, I have to run. Lets chat later" and BOUNCE. Give it a few days to see if they message you back. If they do, close them. If they dont, its probably low interests, which is ok, on to the next one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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