"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Maximummax

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Hey folks, its been a while have opened a thread here.

I have a question
So when i talk to a girl for the first time I forget how to end it and so i find an excuse to leave it.

I would like to know what is the best way to end a conversation so a girl remembers me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SmooveMooves

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Conversations don't need a formal ending. Conversations end when you are both done talking and don't have anything else to add. After that you say: hey, I'll see you around....

And either
  1. Number close (Ask for her contact)
  2. Walk away
A lot of conversational problems simply come from not being relaxed and rushing.
 

KingofPuss

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Just let it flow and be relaxed. I've found that making the woman do most of the talking is easiest. Just look her in the eyes as she speaks so she feels like youre listening (and try actually listening, shut off your thoughts in conversation). Build your talk through what she says, or if you have something to bring to the table, do so.

You'd be surprised how much women love talking about nothing at all. Make fun of stuff, get her to laugh, and stay away from politics / religion
 

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Great advice guys... what about online conv like on fb
I get a lot of lays on fb. Most guys will say its a bad idea.

Strike up a convo "hey do we know each other?", "I didnt realize that you were into ____" etc.

Dont appear needy. Wait a while before you READ and RESPOND. I think its best to gauge their interests by asking a few questions, starting the convo and then saying "good chatting with you, I have to run. Lets chat later" and BOUNCE. Give it a few days to see if they message you back. If they do, close them. If they dont, its probably low interests, which is ok, on to the next one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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