Controlling Sh!t Tests?

[IRRationalProgrammer]

I’m new to all this so I’m soaking everything in still. I’ve always noticed patterns in girls but never had concrete definitions or theories like here. So I’ve had my own methods that work but you guys put them into words. I’m having trouble practically handling sh!t tests.

MOST RECENT:
Girl that I gauged as interested from tinder asked why I’m single. I thought the best response is to control the convo and skim her question with a question. “How would my answer contribute to you?” Tried to hit the middle ground of vague but not too vague. How to I answer a question like that?

 

[lamath]

Turn it into a joke

Something like
Who said i was single.

 

[RickTheToad]

"Just haven't found the right match yet. Could that be you? ;p LOL." Let's get a drink to chat more IRL.

 

[Medina]

"I'm just not looking for a relationship right now"

Sounds like a dumb move but I've seen it work quite powerfully. Gives them a challenge etc

 

[glass half full]

"Just haven't found the right match yet. Could that be you? ;p LOL." Let's get a drink to chat more IRL.

Yes, this...and proceed talking about other fun things.

 

[IRRationalProgrammer]

Yes, this...and proceed talking about other fun things.

Yeah I’ll see how she responds to this

 

[IRRationalProgrammer]

"Just haven't found the right match yet. Could that be you? ;p LOL." Let's get a drink to chat more IRL.

Very good stuff

 

[greatsnake]

well, tell them that you’ve been busy working on your career, professional life, traveling and having fun. Women want someone who can talk and keep things interesting.

 

[wifehunter]

Tinder?

I'm not inclined to give out personal information to trash.

Let her qualify herself, as to WHY she's NOT trash.

 

[17 shots]

I say arrogant stuff like, Im single because most women can't handle me

Or... idk a lot of women are scared of me, they think I'm a player

 

[RickTheToad]

I say arrogant stuff like, Im single because most women can't handle me

Or... idk a lot of women are scared of me, they think I'm a player

Maybe you come on too strong. Need to come off chill and relaxed.

 

[17 shots]

Maybe you come on too strong. Need to come off chill and relaxed.

Nah it makes them smile lol. I don't say it in an arrogant way. I just describe it as an arrogant or confidence thing... and obviously it's not one size fits all, its just one approach for certain women. I can play it either way, and I have a feel of when to do which

 

[Fireballs]

Her: Why are you single ?
You: Just lucky I guess

or

You: I haven’t found one who’s rich enough

Don’t take them seriously .. be playful

 

[flowtheory]

There’s a whole book on tests. You should read it
“What women want when they test men”.

 

[RickTheToad]

Nah it makes them smile lol. I don't say it in an arrogant way. I just describe it as an arrogant or confidence thing... and obviously it's not one size fits all, its just one approach for certain women. I can play it either way, and I have a feel of when to do which

Like a Bo$$

 

[Sunnypoo]

I just tell them being single keeps me out of trouble.

 

[RangerMIke]

The best answer to the question "Why are you single?" is to say "I have high standards, don't you?"