"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Controlling Parents

vagrant

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I'm sure I don't need to describe. How do you deal with them when you still can't live on your own!~
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vagrant

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warrior1 said:
how old are u man?
I'm 21.

When it comes to chick questions the thread creates pages of replies. :cool:
 

brian123

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You are how old and they are still controlling you? You've got to become a man and be yourself.

I can see parents being controlling if you are 14-15, but at 19 and 21?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NewsFlash: After the age of 18, they can rightfuly kick you out of the house.

As long as you are living under their roof and not paying rent for it, then you are their b1tch. If you don't like it then start working on an exit strategy so you can find the means of living on your own.
 
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DJDamage said:
NewsFlash: After the age of 18, they can rightfuly kick you out of the house.

As long as you are living under their roof and not paying rent for it, then you are their b1tch. If you don't like it then start working on an exit strategy so you can find the means of living on your own.
i was gonna say this, but damage already did.
 

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Let me tell you my story so you guys can tell me. I have a girl in ny that I want to visit. I live in ca. My mom is telling me not to go. I'm paying for everything. Ticket, etc. I pay for my college. Money wise I don't give them trouble at all. My mom thinks I'm crazy about the girl. I just want to go before school starts this august. I work full time so it's once in every six months thing to have 7 days off. Unfortunately I didn't listen to her. Bought a ticket already and I'll be out for a week. I'm a good kid but it's too much I think!~
 

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people frown on those of us that want to meet in real life after being brought together from the internet.

they scream "he met her from the internet and that floozy is coming here!!

or they scream "that guy from the internet raped and killed her

so they will say you are crazy....
 

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dude that's my girlfriend of 4 years!~
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Giovanni Casanova

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vagrant said:
Let me tell you my story so you guys can tell me. I have a girl in ny that I want to visit. I live in ca. My mom is telling me not to go. I'm paying for everything. Ticket, etc. I pay for my college. Money wise I don't give them trouble at all. My mom thinks I'm crazy about the girl. I just want to go before school starts this august. I work full time so it's once in every six months thing to have 7 days off. Unfortunately I didn't listen to her. Bought a ticket already and I'll be out for a week. I'm a good kid but it's too much I think!~
Why don't you save that money and live in the dorms?
 

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When dealing with a girl with controlling parents, you can do a few things. One of them, is get the parents to absolutely love you. Talk to them, chit chat, they like that kind of stuff. I had a girl, in which the Mom was the biggest Christian, but because she liked me so much, she'd let her daughter sleep over my house, let me sleep over, etc. The only downside about that is if you ever get on the parents bad side, (in my case, I got into an argument with my girl in which I called her a "*****" and she went and told her Mom about it) then the parents will hate you. So if you get them to like you, you may want to keep it that way, because they'll make your relationship a living hell later.
 

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I agree with guy. If her parents are controlling, you'd better LOVE them. Keep in mind, you can only fake things for so long. You cannot change yourself for ever.

My last ex had parents who controlled ever faucet of her life. Initially, they loved me. Finally, I chose to stop putting on a show for them, and they began to hate me for trivial reasons, which led to our BU. You cannot fight the parents.
 
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