Something got me thinking the other day. As I was working out, I recalled my ex telling me how much she found it attractive that I'm such a go-getter and always looking to better myself and/or situation. Whether it was work or fitness. She thought it was one of my best traits. In a different time of my life, my ex before her loved how comfortable I was in my own skin and just overall confident in my current state. Never had to prove myself nor think about things to work on. Just knew what I had and didn't need much else. Now my more recent ex was a city girl from Boston and the ex before her was more of a country girl. So that can answer that question. However Im curious to know what Sosuave posters opinion's are on this subject.