you're claiming too, you don't know for sure either.Mauser96 said:I know alot of posters claim a bpd ex.
I know my ex has issues, most of them fit bpd
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you're claiming too, you don't know for sure either.Mauser96 said:I know alot of posters claim a bpd ex.
I know my ex has issues, most of them fit bpd
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
you make claims that you aren't sure of, good job!Mauser96 said:So what? If she fits most of the profile, that is good enough for me.
BPD? Not BPD? I don't care. She was toxic, and I am glad to be rid of her.
i deal with facts, not assuming things that might not be. you don't care to know if it's true, you just look for 1 or 2 things to fit your claim.Mauser96 said:By the way asa-don,
Can you please explain to me why your opinion on BPD means more than the men who have dated one?
Actually I find it rather funny. Living with one for years, spending hundreds(!) of hours reading support forums, books, medicals papers, talking with qualified therapist and going through C-PTSD-like syndroms. After all of that, a guy with the wikipedia definition and try to educate you.Mauser96 said:By the way asa-don,
Can you please explain to me why your opinion on BPD means more than the men who have dated one?
you're the one dumb enough to go through all that. other people read something off a website and claim what they want it to be.Pasternak said:Actually I find it rather funny. Living with one for years, spending hundreds(!) of hours reading support forums, books, medicals papers, talking with qualified therapist and going through C-PTSD-like syndroms. After all of that, a guy with the wikipedia definition and try to educate you.
Mauser96 said:Really? Is that what I do? How do you know this?
You have no facts. You are assuming.
http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html
Click the above link and get an education.
Or, continue to argue and make a fool of yourself.
you don't care as long as that's what you want it to be.Mauser96 said:So what? If she fits most of the profile, that is good enough for me.
BPD? Not BPD? I don't care..
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hell Yeah bro ill be carefullMauser96 said:Tread carefully.
Personally, I would stay as far away from this scenario as possible.
Maybe she thinks it would be funny to have you show up to the hotel, start making out with you, and then have her boyfriend in on the plan. He walks into the room with a baseball bat, and proceeds to pound you while she giggles in the background, saying "I told you I would get you back"
Mine was capable of this.
My friend broke up with his BPD when she was acting crazy. She came over to his place just to "apologize" for everything. She started a fight, got a knife and stabbed him. I wouldn't be alone with her where she can accuse you of doing anything. Who are people going to believe? You or her? BPD's are great actors. The chick who stabbed my friend fooled her friends and all of us thinking she was a great person. My words of advice: Don't do it.Jair213 said:This Chick has not change one bit
She has a bf of almost 2 years
Shes paying my traveling ticket to go see her
She also booked a hotel were we could stay at
For 3 days its a Nice place in san diego beach
Lol wtf