"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
contacting bpd ex
- Thread starter Jair213
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you make claims that you aren't sure of, good job!Mauser96 said:
i deal with facts, not assuming things that might not be. you don't care to know if it's true, you just look for 1 or 2 things to fit your claim.Mauser96 said:
Actually I find it rather funny. Living with one for years, spending hundreds(!) of hours reading support forums, books, medicals papers, talking with qualified therapist and going through C-PTSD-like syndroms. After all of that, a guy with the wikipedia definition and try to educate you.Mauser96 said:
you're the one dumb enough to go through all that. other people read something off a website and claim what they want it to be.Pasternak said:
Mauser96 said:
yes, that is what you do because you admitted that's what you do. you don't care as long as that's what you want it to be. you read a website, so what? you can read a website about cancer and you might not even have it until you get it checked out. you're only assuming because you read a website that fits "most of the profile", you claim bpd but you don't actually know. you're just assuming she has bpd.
you don't care as long as that's what you want it to be.Mauser96 said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
I didnt reply after
A day later she messages '' hey What happened? Why did you randomly contact me and then leave me..
Lol its gonna be a fun one .. will keep updating
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
She has a bf of almost 2 years
Shes paying my traveling ticket to go see her
She also booked a hotel were we could stay at
For 3 days its a Nice place in san diego beach
Lol wtf
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Hell Yeah bro ill be carefullMauser96 said:
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My friend broke up with his BPD when she was acting crazy. She came over to his place just to "apologize" for everything. She started a fight, got a knife and stabbed him. I wouldn't be alone with her where she can accuse you of doing anything. Who are people going to believe? You or her? BPD's are great actors. The chick who stabbed my friend fooled her friends and all of us thinking she was a great person. My words of advice: Don't do it.Jair213 said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Its tempting tho lol