"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
contacting bpd ex
- Thread starter Jair213
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
you make claims that you aren't sure of, good job!Mauser96 said:
i deal with facts, not assuming things that might not be. you don't care to know if it's true, you just look for 1 or 2 things to fit your claim.Mauser96 said:
Actually I find it rather funny. Living with one for years, spending hundreds(!) of hours reading support forums, books, medicals papers, talking with qualified therapist and going through C-PTSD-like syndroms. After all of that, a guy with the wikipedia definition and try to educate you.Mauser96 said:
you're the one dumb enough to go through all that. other people read something off a website and claim what they want it to be.Pasternak said:
Mauser96 said:
yes, that is what you do because you admitted that's what you do. you don't care as long as that's what you want it to be. you read a website, so what? you can read a website about cancer and you might not even have it until you get it checked out. you're only assuming because you read a website that fits "most of the profile", you claim bpd but you don't actually know. you're just assuming she has bpd.
you don't care as long as that's what you want it to be.Mauser96 said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
I didnt reply after
A day later she messages '' hey What happened? Why did you randomly contact me and then leave me..
Lol its gonna be a fun one .. will keep updating
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
She has a bf of almost 2 years
Shes paying my traveling ticket to go see her
She also booked a hotel were we could stay at
For 3 days its a Nice place in san diego beach
Lol wtf
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Hell Yeah bro ill be carefullMauser96 said:
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My friend broke up with his BPD when she was acting crazy. She came over to his place just to "apologize" for everything. She started a fight, got a knife and stabbed him. I wouldn't be alone with her where she can accuse you of doing anything. Who are people going to believe? You or her? BPD's are great actors. The chick who stabbed my friend fooled her friends and all of us thinking she was a great person. My words of advice: Don't do it.Jair213 said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Its tempting tho lol