I just finished my freshman year of college and am back home. I was thinking about contacting this one girl I knew from high school (casual friends from 8th gade-high school)..We've talked on the phone/texted before but not since like last August, so I'm not sure if she'll have me saved still in her phone...How should I go about contacting her again. (text/call? email?) Thanks
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Contacting a girl from your past
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Dont. Move on.
alright...any ideas on what to initially text her?sagexx said:friend and hang out just regularly text her, anything else i wouldnt recommend
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ive done this many times and had great success. i usually do the text thing and just say "hey, its xxxx, you have anything goin on tonite? im back in town." bottom line, it really doesnt matter what you say,if their available and they had/have interst in you your golden.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
+1 on on this.Romjuan said:ive done this many times and had great success. i usually do the text thing and just say "hey, its xxxx, you have anything goin on tonite? im back in town." bottom line, it really doesnt matter what you say,if their available and they had/have interst in you your golden.
I have a friend that does this all the time, he travels from New York to Oregon to California several times a year. Always picking up new numbers and contacting old plates. She could be a fling you can visit several times a year since it's your hometown. No strings attached if you do it right.
Thanks....This is so simple yet so true and it really makes sense to contact her. Thanks!Captain said:Text or call her.
You contact her. Best case = sex. Worst case = no reply.
You don't contact her = no reply = 0% chance of sex.