I just finished my freshman year of college and am back home. I was thinking about contacting this one girl I knew from high school (casual friends from 8th gade-high school)..We've talked on the phone/texted before but not since like last August, so I'm not sure if she'll have me saved still in her phone...How should I go about contacting her again. (text/call? email?) Thanks
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Contacting a girl from your past
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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alright...any ideas on what to initially text her?sagexx said:friend and hang out just regularly text her, anything else i wouldnt recommend
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ive done this many times and had great success. i usually do the text thing and just say "hey, its xxxx, you have anything goin on tonite? im back in town." bottom line, it really doesnt matter what you say,if their available and they had/have interst in you your golden.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
+1 on on this.Romjuan said:ive done this many times and had great success. i usually do the text thing and just say "hey, its xxxx, you have anything goin on tonite? im back in town." bottom line, it really doesnt matter what you say,if their available and they had/have interst in you your golden.
I have a friend that does this all the time, he travels from New York to Oregon to California several times a year. Always picking up new numbers and contacting old plates. She could be a fling you can visit several times a year since it's your hometown. No strings attached if you do it right.
Thanks....This is so simple yet so true and it really makes sense to contact her. Thanks!Captain said:Text or call her.
You contact her. Best case = sex. Worst case = no reply.
You don't contact her = no reply = 0% chance of sex.