"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Contacting a girl after 10 years

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About 10 years ago I went on two dates with this girl. Messed around the first date then banged her on date two. She acted a little weird - I was the second guy she slept with, first was a LTR boyfriend. She got super shy and awkward around me. I was kind of turned off and never asked her out again. We had the same friends though so we kept in touch online for a few months and I know she still had feelings because my friends all told me. We went on an actual "date" a few months later but I wasn't really feeling her at all.

I haven't seen or spoken to her in 10 years.

I ran into a friend of mine that knows her and I asked how she's doing. She said I should give her a call and gave me the girls number.

Any ideas how to break the ice on this one? I'm thinking it would only be awkward if I make it awkward.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Also prepare that she might have entered game in those 10 years. Now ten years is a long time! She might wanna game u. They love challenges
 

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Hmm can't text it looks like this might be a landline number. I will update the thread when I get ahold of her.
 

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I am curious as to what will happen! I wanna see if there is actual longevity in womans feelings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mCas27

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I think that situation here is pretty clear, just drop her text and ask something like 'Hey, what's up? I didn't sow you long time, do you want to repeat...'
If she answers (no matter what) 99% chances that you will be in bad very soon with her again.
 
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