"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Contacting a girl after 10 years

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About 10 years ago I went on two dates with this girl. Messed around the first date then banged her on date two. She acted a little weird - I was the second guy she slept with, first was a LTR boyfriend. She got super shy and awkward around me. I was kind of turned off and never asked her out again. We had the same friends though so we kept in touch online for a few months and I know she still had feelings because my friends all told me. We went on an actual "date" a few months later but I wasn't really feeling her at all.

I haven't seen or spoken to her in 10 years.

I ran into a friend of mine that knows her and I asked how she's doing. She said I should give her a call and gave me the girls number.

Any ideas how to break the ice on this one? I'm thinking it would only be awkward if I make it awkward.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Also prepare that she might have entered game in those 10 years. Now ten years is a long time! She might wanna game u. They love challenges
 
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Hmm can't text it looks like this might be a landline number. I will update the thread when I get ahold of her.
 
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I am curious as to what will happen! I wanna see if there is actual longevity in womans feelings.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think that situation here is pretty clear, just drop her text and ask something like 'Hey, what's up? I didn't sow you long time, do you want to repeat...'
If she answers (no matter what) 99% chances that you will be in bad very soon with her again.
 
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