"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Contacting a girl after 10 years

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About 10 years ago I went on two dates with this girl. Messed around the first date then banged her on date two. She acted a little weird - I was the second guy she slept with, first was a LTR boyfriend. She got super shy and awkward around me. I was kind of turned off and never asked her out again. We had the same friends though so we kept in touch online for a few months and I know she still had feelings because my friends all told me. We went on an actual "date" a few months later but I wasn't really feeling her at all.

I haven't seen or spoken to her in 10 years.

I ran into a friend of mine that knows her and I asked how she's doing. She said I should give her a call and gave me the girls number.

Any ideas how to break the ice on this one? I'm thinking it would only be awkward if I make it awkward.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Also prepare that she might have entered game in those 10 years. Now ten years is a long time! She might wanna game u. They love challenges
 
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Hmm can't text it looks like this might be a landline number. I will update the thread when I get ahold of her.
 
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I am curious as to what will happen! I wanna see if there is actual longevity in womans feelings.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think that situation here is pretty clear, just drop her text and ask something like 'Hey, what's up? I didn't sow you long time, do you want to repeat...'
If she answers (no matter what) 99% chances that you will be in bad very soon with her again.
 
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