"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Contacting a girl after 10 years

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About 10 years ago I went on two dates with this girl. Messed around the first date then banged her on date two. She acted a little weird - I was the second guy she slept with, first was a LTR boyfriend. She got super shy and awkward around me. I was kind of turned off and never asked her out again. We had the same friends though so we kept in touch online for a few months and I know she still had feelings because my friends all told me. We went on an actual "date" a few months later but I wasn't really feeling her at all.

I haven't seen or spoken to her in 10 years.

I ran into a friend of mine that knows her and I asked how she's doing. She said I should give her a call and gave me the girls number.

Any ideas how to break the ice on this one? I'm thinking it would only be awkward if I make it awkward.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also prepare that she might have entered game in those 10 years. Now ten years is a long time! She might wanna game u. They love challenges
 
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Hmm can't text it looks like this might be a landline number. I will update the thread when I get ahold of her.
 
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I am curious as to what will happen! I wanna see if there is actual longevity in womans feelings.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think that situation here is pretty clear, just drop her text and ask something like 'Hey, what's up? I didn't sow you long time, do you want to repeat...'
If she answers (no matter what) 99% chances that you will be in bad very soon with her again.
 
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