"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl calls me alot all the time go over cuddle n stuff and hold hands ... now wont call me .. so i call she say she call me back.. never does WTF ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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its hard to come to a solid conclusion when you give so little information but it seems like she used to like you but has now lost intrest and does not like you anymore, my guess is you where being to needy or saying loads of AFC stuff liek i love you. You just got to use your DJ skills to get her intrest going. Do not be needy and try and use kino, it works!!

hope iv been a help
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
use your DJ skills
wh01987?

GOOD ONE.
 

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if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
 

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Originally posted by gav
if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
Don't give him the illusion that he is in control of this situation.

You were a cuddle buddy. You never made a move (kissing, ever heard of it??). So this girl NEXTed you. Life sucks sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You played the role of her cuddle bitch. She's either found a new one or she's moved on and as blienk said, NEXTED YOU.

Real men would have made a move by now.

Well... real men wouldn't let a few phone calls bother them. Well, they wouldn't be on the phone much either.

You just seemed to do too many things wrong. If you were really interested in a girl and she asked you to call her back, you would. Expect the same from her. You lost her interest by not being masculine or confident enough to make a move. Move on and try again next time.
 
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