"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wh01987

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girl calls me alot all the time go over cuddle n stuff and hold hands ... now wont call me .. so i call she say she call me back.. never does WTF ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its hard to come to a solid conclusion when you give so little information but it seems like she used to like you but has now lost intrest and does not like you anymore, my guess is you where being to needy or saying loads of AFC stuff liek i love you. You just got to use your DJ skills to get her intrest going. Do not be needy and try and use kino, it works!!

hope iv been a help
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
use your DJ skills
wh01987?

GOOD ONE.
 

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if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
 

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Originally posted by gav
if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
Don't give him the illusion that he is in control of this situation.

You were a cuddle buddy. You never made a move (kissing, ever heard of it??). So this girl NEXTed you. Life sucks sometimes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You played the role of her cuddle bitch. She's either found a new one or she's moved on and as blienk said, NEXTED YOU.

Real men would have made a move by now.

Well... real men wouldn't let a few phone calls bother them. Well, they wouldn't be on the phone much either.

You just seemed to do too many things wrong. If you were really interested in a girl and she asked you to call her back, you would. Expect the same from her. You lost her interest by not being masculine or confident enough to make a move. Move on and try again next time.
 
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