"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl calls me alot all the time go over cuddle n stuff and hold hands ... now wont call me .. so i call she say she call me back.. never does WTF ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its hard to come to a solid conclusion when you give so little information but it seems like she used to like you but has now lost intrest and does not like you anymore, my guess is you where being to needy or saying loads of AFC stuff liek i love you. You just got to use your DJ skills to get her intrest going. Do not be needy and try and use kino, it works!!

hope iv been a help
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
use your DJ skills
wh01987?

GOOD ONE.
 

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if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
 

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Originally posted by gav
if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
Don't give him the illusion that he is in control of this situation.

You were a cuddle buddy. You never made a move (kissing, ever heard of it??). So this girl NEXTed you. Life sucks sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You played the role of her cuddle bitch. She's either found a new one or she's moved on and as blienk said, NEXTED YOU.

Real men would have made a move by now.

Well... real men wouldn't let a few phone calls bother them. Well, they wouldn't be on the phone much either.

You just seemed to do too many things wrong. If you were really interested in a girl and she asked you to call her back, you would. Expect the same from her. You lost her interest by not being masculine or confident enough to make a move. Move on and try again next time.
 
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