"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl calls me alot all the time go over cuddle n stuff and hold hands ... now wont call me .. so i call she say she call me back.. never does WTF ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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its hard to come to a solid conclusion when you give so little information but it seems like she used to like you but has now lost intrest and does not like you anymore, my guess is you where being to needy or saying loads of AFC stuff liek i love you. You just got to use your DJ skills to get her intrest going. Do not be needy and try and use kino, it works!!

hope iv been a help
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
use your DJ skills
wh01987?

GOOD ONE.
 

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if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
 

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Originally posted by gav
if she doesn't call you back when she said she would, that is unacceptable in your world. so

a) ignore her and cut her out of your life
b) next time you speak to her, get angry (not too angry) and call her out on ignoring you
Don't give him the illusion that he is in control of this situation.

You were a cuddle buddy. You never made a move (kissing, ever heard of it??). So this girl NEXTed you. Life sucks sometimes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You played the role of her cuddle bitch. She's either found a new one or she's moved on and as blienk said, NEXTED YOU.

Real men would have made a move by now.

Well... real men wouldn't let a few phone calls bother them. Well, they wouldn't be on the phone much either.

You just seemed to do too many things wrong. If you were really interested in a girl and she asked you to call her back, you would. Expect the same from her. You lost her interest by not being masculine or confident enough to make a move. Move on and try again next time.
 
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