I'm in HS and I'm currently talking to a girl who I developed interest for. Funny thing is.... We rarely talk at school and she's kinda outspoken but around me she isn't too talkative. I'm a chill/laid back guy and never chased after girls, girls just come to me. I can sorta flirt with girls, started doing a bit of kino on other girls. I just can't with this girl. Like I just go blank on what to talk about. I'm not intimidated but I can't really place a word on it. She laughs at things I say that really aren't funny and always says hey to me, so how I kept interest is beyond me. We text a lot though which may be the problem. I'm always in control of the conversation as far as the topic and ending it when it becomes boring. How can I get things a bit more flirty while texting and in person. Really don't want to lose interest, just never been in this position.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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