I'm in HS and I'm currently talking to a girl who I developed interest for. Funny thing is.... We rarely talk at school and she's kinda outspoken but around me she isn't too talkative. I'm a chill/laid back guy and never chased after girls, girls just come to me. I can sorta flirt with girls, started doing a bit of kino on other girls. I just can't with this girl. Like I just go blank on what to talk about. I'm not intimidated but I can't really place a word on it. She laughs at things I say that really aren't funny and always says hey to me, so how I kept interest is beyond me. We text a lot though which may be the problem. I'm always in control of the conversation as far as the topic and ending it when it becomes boring. How can I get things a bit more flirty while texting and in person. Really don't want to lose interest, just never been in this position.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Confused...
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