I'm in HS and I'm currently talking to a girl who I developed interest for. Funny thing is.... We rarely talk at school and she's kinda outspoken but around me she isn't too talkative. I'm a chill/laid back guy and never chased after girls, girls just come to me. I can sorta flirt with girls, started doing a bit of kino on other girls. I just can't with this girl. Like I just go blank on what to talk about. I'm not intimidated but I can't really place a word on it. She laughs at things I say that really aren't funny and always says hey to me, so how I kept interest is beyond me. We text a lot though which may be the problem. I'm always in control of the conversation as far as the topic and ending it when it becomes boring. How can I get things a bit more flirty while texting and in person. Really don't want to lose interest, just never been in this position.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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