I'm in HS and I'm currently talking to a girl who I developed interest for. Funny thing is.... We rarely talk at school and she's kinda outspoken but around me she isn't too talkative. I'm a chill/laid back guy and never chased after girls, girls just come to me. I can sorta flirt with girls, started doing a bit of kino on other girls. I just can't with this girl. Like I just go blank on what to talk about. I'm not intimidated but I can't really place a word on it. She laughs at things I say that really aren't funny and always says hey to me, so how I kept interest is beyond me. We text a lot though which may be the problem. I'm always in control of the conversation as far as the topic and ending it when it becomes boring. How can I get things a bit more flirty while texting and in person. Really don't want to lose interest, just never been in this position.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Confused...
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