I'm in HS and I'm currently talking to a girl who I developed interest for. Funny thing is.... We rarely talk at school and she's kinda outspoken but around me she isn't too talkative. I'm a chill/laid back guy and never chased after girls, girls just come to me. I can sorta flirt with girls, started doing a bit of kino on other girls. I just can't with this girl. Like I just go blank on what to talk about. I'm not intimidated but I can't really place a word on it. She laughs at things I say that really aren't funny and always says hey to me, so how I kept interest is beyond me. We text a lot though which may be the problem. I'm always in control of the conversation as far as the topic and ending it when it becomes boring. How can I get things a bit more flirty while texting and in person. Really don't want to lose interest, just never been in this position.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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