Confused on dating?

[*Salas*]

I wasn't allowed to date my entire life until I hit HS, and so I'm a little confused..
The questions may seem stupid because they are.


When are you supposed to actually hold hands?
I'm "talking" with this girl but idk where to go, I've kino'd both discreetly and indiscreetly, but seriously WTF next? I ask her out, than like when does it become like the holding hands type thing?

And like when is it 'official'? I see people all of a sudden become official and lots of times it seems like they were directly in a relationship before they became official.

Any other advice will help too

 

[NorwegianDJ]

No rules. Dont worry about playing the game and do what feels right. Hesitation kills.

 

[Skyline]

If its in the moment then hold her hand its not that big of a deal. When you established interest and stuff ask her to hang out at a movie or something and then escalate to whatever.

As for the "official before actually official" is basically the beginning stages of a relationship of a plate. All you have to do is escalate and flirt a little and you'll be in that position.

 

[AlexLefty]

Uhh you hold her hand whenever you want. You need to stop focusing on minute details like this. Instead, focus on restructuring your entire way of life & mind set to become a boss. When you do this, you will not just "understand" that you can hold her hand whenever you want, you will KNOW that you can hold her hand whenever you want. Why? Because you won't even be thinking about it 'cause you'll be a boss

Also for relationships I think it's common for 2 peeps to know that they'll be dating eventually. It's actually "official", as our culture describes it, when the guy literally asks the girl to be his gf