"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Confused about girls flirting

Whatevs

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Rarley do I feel as though girls are attracted to me, and when they seem to be flirty, it seems that way with every other guy aswell.


Im not sure exactly what im doing wrong.. im sure i Know what to look for...

Maybe the question is what do i need to attract woman other ways than physical features?



thanks for any tips


oh and I will look around for a thread like this.. maybe redirect me if you know of one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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be interesting, be a somebody, try not to show the girls too much attention, but listen to them. Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond. As the game said "A PUA must be different, the exception to the rule" Don't try and be like everyone else, or else you won't be remembered. Be unique for who you are and practice, practice, practice, learn what works well for you.
 

Whatevs

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ok cool thanks


I should take a look at the dj bible?

Is there a highschool version?

I'll search too
 

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Hah, sounds good man

Thanks for the quik responses... really appreciated
 

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Whatevs post this $hit on the discussion i come to this side of the forum for tips not discussions
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rocko said:
Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond.
Well put and very true. Those kind of conversation with people will get you big points when it comes to feeling of importance. If you let her talk she will listen for hours.
 
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