Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Confused about girls flirting

Whatevs

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Rarley do I feel as though girls are attracted to me, and when they seem to be flirty, it seems that way with every other guy aswell.


Im not sure exactly what im doing wrong.. im sure i Know what to look for...

Maybe the question is what do i need to attract woman other ways than physical features?



thanks for any tips


oh and I will look around for a thread like this.. maybe redirect me if you know of one
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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be interesting, be a somebody, try not to show the girls too much attention, but listen to them. Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond. As the game said "A PUA must be different, the exception to the rule" Don't try and be like everyone else, or else you won't be remembered. Be unique for who you are and practice, practice, practice, learn what works well for you.
 

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ok cool thanks


I should take a look at the dj bible?

Is there a highschool version?

I'll search too
 

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Hah, sounds good man

Thanks for the quik responses... really appreciated
 

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Whatevs post this $hit on the discussion i come to this side of the forum for tips not discussions
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rocko said:
Almost everyone loves to hear themselves talk, and when someone is there listening, it opens up a special bond.
Well put and very true. Those kind of conversation with people will get you big points when it comes to feeling of importance. If you let her talk she will listen for hours.
 
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